Sometimes I feel like a slacker regarding things like Halloween, Birthdays, Christmas etc. For example, Henry does not want a birthday party. He wants cupcakes and his best friend to come over, but that is about it. If we do a party, it would only to repay social obligations and do what I "think" I am supposed to be doing.
I asked him about Halloween yesterday. He knows what it is. He knows you wear a costume. What does Henry want to dress up as? "I want to wear my pants, shirt and underwear Mommy."