I have found the root of my discipline problem. His name is Daddy. Adam tries to play that he is so tough and strict on Henry but his version of discipline is basically letting Henry do whatever he wants.
You may remember my problem of Henry standing in the bathtub. After discussing it with Adam it turns out that he has been letting Henry stand in the tub for weeks. When I asked why he does this despite the danger involved he replied, "Because he wants to and he screams if I don't let him." Hmm...I'll let you mull that one over for a while!